Love at first sight!!!!

The twins have arrived!!!! No not me, my best friend Jenn ( chica to me) .
Luke and Nolan arrived on June 22nd at 36 weeks, 2 weeks before their scheduled C-section.
Nolan came at 11:38 tipping the scale at 5lbs 12 oz and was 18.7 " and Luke followed one minute later weighing 5lbs 1oz and was 18" and the are BOTH BLONDE!!!! I thought for sure at least one would have dark hair like daddy, nope both are blonde like mommy. Luke had to go to the NICU to get some help with his breathing but is doing great otherwise, he is even eating better then his tubby brother( love you Nolan).
I got to hold Nolan for hours yesterday and even change a poopy diaper. I got to see Luke through the glass at the NICU. I can not wait to get my hands on him, and smother him with kisses. Mommy is doing great, even though I am one up on her in the diaper changing. lol
She looks amazing, she does not look like she just had twins. She looks awesome holding her babies, though they do have to listen to her singing crazy made up songs ( it will be OK boys no mommy is not crazy) . Daddy is a rock star, jumping right in changing and feeding, and taking care of mommy.
I am so happy for them, they are a perfect little family. They are so happy and I wish them nothing but the best. Hopefully by this time next yr it will be me having a baby hey maybe I will have twin girls and we can start planning their weddings. he he
Well Let me get back to work so I can hopefully get out early and go see the babies again.

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So last weekend I had the joy of taking my God-daughter Cloie for the weekend! She has a crappy life and a crappy mom and step dad. Her mom is 22 but has the mentality of I would say a 15 yr old , SO I am not knocking young mothers I am just knocker her because her because she is a freaking idiot 2 kids by the time she was 20. She never has a stable place to live her and her B/F break up all the time so she has to move from house to house. She has no job and still never has the time to cook, clean or wash the kids clothes. But anyway I try to get her one or 2 weekends a month . Last weekend when I went to pick her up her mom said I have nothing washed but cloie said you have clothes at your house ( yes I do because the clothes you give me are never the right size. ) For example the outfit she had on when i picked her up consisted of a 18-24 month old DRESS but it was a shirt on her and sweatpants for a 6-9 month old that were shorts on her. GRRRRRRRR I did just spent like 100 bucks on new summer clothes for her for when she comes to my house, and 2 new bathing suits, and new beach toys(love Walmart)

Anyway on sat morning we got up nice and early packed the car and headed down the shore to the beach. We has sooo much fun we went on the beach built sand castles and went into the water, collected shells. we were on the beach for about 4 hours went home took naps then hit the boardwalk and went on the rides. she had so much fun I loved watching her smile it was the best part to me. AS I was tucking her in she said " god mother thank you for taking me on the ride" melted my heart. Sunday we went back to the beach and just had a blast. Sunday night as e heading home I told her she was going back to mommies house and she got upset, then she asked me if I could pick her up after work and take her to get and ice pop ( too cute)

So I am working at a Charter School that is k-4 and I am going to get her in the school for Kindergarten and I am going to talk to her mom about keeping her all week and then taking her home to her one weekend. Just so I can make sure she gets to school everyday and on time.
I will even let her keep her child support because it is not about money to me it is about Cloie and making sure she has the best opportunities in life. I am going to try and post pics of the weekend.

While I am at it.....

I CAN NOT stand these women that pop out kid after kid then collect welfare, food stamps, free medical try and apply for EVERY free benefit out there, SSI if their child is on med's because their child has "behavior issues" HELL it is called F**king DISCIPLINE try SAYING NO to your child once in a while be a damn parent do your job oh and maybe get a job too.
I have a friend who has 4 kids by 4 baby daddies and she collects EVERY free benefit out there but with the money she gets she goes out and bye a $350.00 cell phone and send her new b/f in jail money EVERY WEEK!!!!!!! grrrrr it just pisses me off that people like this can pop out kids left and right and good people, people who were born to be mommies like us cant or can but have trouble and have to spends thousands of dollars doing it.

*** Note there is nothing wrong with getting help ( welfare, foodstamps) if you need it but many people including my friend abuse it. *****

ok Seriously!!!!

Ok SO I work with this woman who I totally thought was 28 maybe 30 turns out she has 2 children in their 20's and then, had her tubes CUT & TIED!!!! well guess what happend a few yrs after that she got pregnany not once not twice but THREE TIMES with her freeking tubes tied!!!!!!!! HOW THE HELL is this possible!!!!!!!! I walked away from the conversation thinking humm maybe i should gte my tubes tied maybe I will have better luck!!! Maybe everyone that is having problems should do it. ( kidding of course)

best friends shower

So this weekend (Sat) was my best friend Jennifer's baby shower. The theme was Under the big top. Can I tell you how cute it was!!! The cake was seriously the cutest thing I ever seen.
I will pic later, but I am sure she will have them on her blog before me.
Can I also say how GREAT everyone was to her and her 2 baby boys, she received almost everything and what she didnt get she will be able to get with the gift cards and when she returns the mutiple gifts,( 4 swings, 3 pack and plays, 3 humidifers just to name a few).
It was so much fun to help her open all these great gifts and then go back to her house and help sort the bags full of clothes, bibs, blankets, and socks.
One thing I was shocked about was the fact that she hardly received any diapers, usually the mother to be gets tons of them and at this shower she only got 2 cases and a few small packs.
I guess it was because people got her the big things instead of diapers since she does need 2 of everything.
It was so much fun, part of me wishes it was me that was having the baby and it was my baby shower, but honestly I am sooo happy for my Bestie, and I know I will be so close to these babies.

My name is Melissa and I am 30 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have never been happier. I know that 2 years is not a long time to be thinking about babies but that is all I have on the brain. I have wanted to be a mom my whole life, I even played with my dolls until I was 13 yrs old. At holidays I am often found playing in the floor with all the kids instead of having adult conversations. Why dont I just have a baby you ask? Good question. My b/f and I talk about it all the time and in reality it is just not the right time for a few reasons. 1st -my job the hospital I work at is closing so I will have to go on unemployment while I look for a job, we all know there are no jobs out there. 2nd- no job means no insurance. 3rd- house needs work before we can bring a baby into it. These are just a few of the reasons why we have to wait and I understand it but, It does not mean that I do not ache for a baby EVERYDAY!!!